Second day

Good evening!)))
I continue to monitor my emotions ..... That is really funny because then I do it I become more calm!
The need to notice your own behavior makes you to use your intellect more)))
I still experience big emotional swings (mostly about me son - who knows me too good especially how to get attention from me) but I think I start to feel difference and I am able to choose between emotions and "cold" intellect.
I never thought about health issues as unused energy we accumulate at the time of rueful feelings!
It is good for some of us to have ability to expose these feelings by screaming or beating up a pillow but most people are trying not to disturb others ... so we keep all of it inside. 
It is like a energy block here and there ... and it's depends how emotional AND polite we are ... somebody has less - somebody has more....

So ... I'm trying to be kind to myself - do not take everything TOO close and  LET   IT    GO    if I already did !

Day first

Hello, there!))) 
First lessons was about -who we are - humans beings!
And at the beginning,  I've been asked to write list of  wishes I have and also of what I would like to change in myself (self esteem, relationships, health) and surrounding (family, life style, job or business). 
In addition, it was recommended to make a short video (2-3 minutes). I see it as a video letter to myself that I will watch later - after I finish that course!


The intro lesson is about theories used in this method, how, for how long and why we do what we are going to do in some order and why it is so important do not skip classes and to do "homework" - it sounds familiar, isn't it? ))))
I really like this author for creating a technique that makes you involved on every step of the way to transform your life - it is not NLP or Hellinger Approach where trained teachers or coaches will do most of work for you - it works too but to create life long basic for happy life we have to understand ourselves and consciously live life WE CHOOSE!

I was really surprised to know how emotions effect our everyday's life .... Strong emotions can take over our intellect and make us to do something we will fell sorry for - but later. 

So two other behavioral factors are our intellect and instincts.

My first real homework is to monitor my emotions within next few days and to record it in a chart .... 

Let's do it ;)

Happy me:) - A new project!

At the beginning, I would like you to know me ... just a little bit)))
But first, I want to apologize for my poor English but as I already mentioned before my desire to share what I know and how I feel  is much bigger than my unsatisfied writing!
I live in America near 2.5 years and unfortunately languages never were my strongest side)))

Where should I start .... I think I have to say - Than you! - again and again to my mother who rose me through tough time of Perestroika and much more difficult period after that. Who was divorced and yet  gave me a chance to get good University education AND teaching me to feel better about myself. She gifted me the world of books ...
My dear Mother was the one who brought home first Louisa Hay's book that started a new era of my life!
In her books, Louise Hay showed me the way to except myself the way I am, thought me to say "No" when I want to do it, gave me chance to catch moments of enthusiasm and enjoy it.
It was just the beginning! I have read tons of books - self-help, esoteric literature, foreign authors and Russians, even fiction thought me to see bigger picture of life....
As I grew up as a person, sometimes I got frustrated of the complicity of life but it is a normal process - than more you know than more you HAVE to learn!
Because of similarity of life style I preferred to read Russian author like  Mirzakarim Norbekov  and  Alexander Sviyash and others.
I tried to apply their ideas to my life and I can tell it works .... I was a divorced hard working mother in Ukraine ... but I was happy and optimistic life style along with desire to be happy and make happy other people gave me opportunity improve my life there and later helped me to meet my husband, Michael, and moved to the US.

Lately, I was thinking more and more about what really makes people happy - and I would like to show you how these can work for you too!!!
I'm going to start 21 lessons course created by  Alexander Sviyash - "Start your life all over again. Four steps to new reality". It will be my first project on my path of trying to find method that will help to anybody to be happier every day!
And I will keep notes in my blog about changes I experience!
Wish me luck! I will start tomorrow!

Enthusiasm is contagious. Start an epidemic. 

Don Ward 

Enthusiasm is a very powerful thing. Children are a perfect example of it! They can spend hours doing what they what and like but on other hand can get tired in few minutes if we force them to do something they don't want!

I'm sure you familiar with feelings then you can work for hours and hours without rest and at the end you can be not tired at all.

When you are enthusiastic about something you feel like nothing can stop you and you really can do it.
Next time time you feel it  ... respect your feelings and try to remember how it is to be in "enthusiasm state of mind".
Originally, an enthusiast (from the Greek enthousiasmos) was a person possessed be a god.
In modern meaning, an enthusiast is a person who is adventurous, constantly busy with all the energy, who truly lives in the moment.


Been enthusiastic helps to achieve your goals, creates state of mind when your thoughts become a powerful tool on the way to understand who you are and where to go to find your happiness!


So enjoy and exercise your enthusiasm.
Enjoy you body. Eat well, drink water, get enough sleep and rest. Avoid stressful situations, if you can’t avoid them, change who you think and feel about it. Exercise! Or at least walk)))

Take care of you mind. The mind is so powerful that even with a frail body with strong willing mind you still can be enthusiastic and able to change your life and even improve your health. Influence your mind with the right thoughts. Listen to motivational speakers, read inspirational books, think positive! 

Do the things you love. Do the things you love! Dance even if you can do it only at home. Sing even nobody likes how you do it))). Listen music you love. think about people you are happy with! Read!  

Take a break. If you really feel down, give yourself rest. Your joy will come back again! If you have to do something and you don't feel good about it .... please, give yourself  time ... if it still doesn't sound right to you - you don’t have to do it - find something that you are in harmony with (of course, if it is not about your job)))).
Socialize. Socialize with people who share same life view as you.

Enthusiasm is contagious - we will light this world!

Hugging

Hugging is healthy.

It helps the immune system, cures depression, reduce stress, and induces sleep.
It's invigorating, rejuvenating and has no unpleasant side effects. It's nothing less than a miracle drug. It can be taken as often as needed, doesn't require a prescription.
Hugging is natural. It's organic, naturally sweet, has no artificial ingredients, environmentally friendly and is 100% wholesome.
Hugging is the ideal gift.
Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its own wrapping paper and, of course, it fully returnable.

Internet source

For whom you are lighting?

I like to think about us, people, as candles that dedicate its light to the God (or Universe, or Life - whatever you believe). Than more we are grateful to God, than happier we are - than brighter our inner light .... Can you imagine if we try our best in that path our Earth will  glare in God's eyes even brighter than the Sun!

Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle 

will not be shortened.  Happiness never decreases be being shared!

Buddha

To be HAPPY

Following a strong desire that could not leave me at least last four years I started this blog to show the way leaded me to a happy person I am.
Without any magic I have grown from a scared teenager and not very satisfied young woman to a woman who found her peace and facing middle age crisis in near future with optimism!
I hope I will not turn you away by saying I took about 22 years to do this but once you know the way to go it gets easier to follow!!
I'm not a teacher, or mentor, or guru ... but I have read so much, I have seen a lot too .... And the most important - I really changed my life to the best!!!
I really have something to share and I want to!
I want to show you the way to heal your soul, to restore your body .... follow me and maybe you will discover answers that you were looking for bothering you....